PP SEX

1st kid, I didn’t heal right so sex was painful at first (and was always uncomfortable up until I had my second baby) now with the second I had a worse tear and I’ve only had slight soreness at first.

After my first it hurt a whole lot, so much that I ended up waiting until 6 months after my second kid was born to have sex. I had a 3rd degree tear with my first and no tearing with my second. This time again I had no tearing but I haven't had sex yet. I'm scared LOL. I have lube and toys for when the urge strikes me because I've found going into it gradually helps a lot.

Lube is very helpful. Try different positions because things are different and what might of been your favorite might not be anymore and go slow

I'm almost 6wks and it hurts and bleeds

Im post c section and im scared if its gonna feel different

I had 2nd degree tears with both births. So, with my first, it was pretty painful the first 2 or 3 times. However, this time, I have had absolutely no pain. It really just depends on your body.

I’m post c section as well and it felt really good the first time. It was a little painful at the end of the tunnel but, as long as your partner takes it easy and understands that you just had a baby everything should be fine. Take it slow.

@Kaitlyn that being uncomfortable lasted every time for your first ? 😭

@Leslie I’m scared too 😳😭 because I know it can be painful like if it was starting all over again and losing the v card!

@Alyssa okay hunny! Thank you for that tip!

@Kirsten every single time ?

@Kat let me know if it is different

@Bailey oh wow, that’s good that this time you had no pain.

@Kae THAT IS THE SCARY PART. Men DON’T get the take it slow and be gentle because when I was pregnant it was very uncomfortable and painful and he did not listen to me 🤧

I didn't try more than once

I wouldn’t say it’s all men.. I would discuss boundaries for sure. If he can’t respect them then I’m not sure what other advice to give. Im also not sure your situation so I can’t really speak much on it.