After my first it hurt a whole lot, so much that I ended up waiting until 6 months after my second kid was born to have sex. I had a 3rd degree tear with my first and no tearing with my second. This time again I had no tearing but I haven't had sex yet. I'm scared LOL. I have lube and toys for when the urge strikes me because I've found going into it gradually helps a lot.
Lube is very helpful. Try different positions because things are different and what might of been your favorite might not be anymore and go slow
I'm almost 6wks and it hurts and bleeds
Im post c section and im scared if its gonna feel different
I had 2nd degree tears with both births. So, with my first, it was pretty painful the first 2 or 3 times. However, this time, I have had absolutely no pain. It really just depends on your body.
1st kid, I didn’t heal right so sex was painful at first (and was always uncomfortable up until I had my second baby) now with the second I had a worse tear and I’ve only had slight soreness at first.