A small vent

My birthday was two days ago (turned 25). Last year my husband and I moved across the country to be closer to his family because i come from a broken one. Well my MIL surprised me with a dinner which i loved. But a part of me just wanted a few gift cards to spoil myself. Im a SAHM of 2 under 2. I dont go out ever but i hoped maybe a few gift cards for my birthday would be my excuse to get myself something nice for once in 2 years. To top it off my dad didnt call for my birthday. Im thankful for my husbands family. Theyve made me feel everything i always wanted from my own. Which is why i feel so guilty for feeling this way.

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So hint for Christmas or your next birthday that you’d like some gift cards or time to yourself to go somewhere

Get your husband to hint to his parents that all you want is some gift cards for Christmas

Aw its ok! Its great for you to let these feelings out- even if its with us. You could mention it to your husband as he can probably hint it to his family with more ease. Coming from a similar situation myself, I can say that this is just one of the few birthdays youre going to be spending with them so dont let it guilt trip you! You have so many more to celebrate & im sure theyre looking forward to celebrating YOU so dont be afraid to voice your needs and wants❣️ also, happy late birthday mama 🥰

They clearly dont have ill intentions and love you as their own! No one can read minds so make sure you hint on gift cards or have your partner suggest it to them lol

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