Has anyone else’s relationship gone to absolute shit since having a baby?
I think we’re going to try couples therapy in the new year. I’m starting to think we actually might break up. It’s just so hard.
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It does, I felt like my partner still old person and getting worst, while from my side the baby change everything in me Still don't know what to do,
We also have arguments..more than before..we both tired..i feel like i do everything no matter how much he helps..he is working even saturday and when comes home he needs to cook and clean ir help with whatever i need..but we promised each other before baby was born that we will sort everything together..but to be honest i don’t know how to manage the anger i have..🫣it’s been rough, hope you guys get better soon, sending love
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I wouldn’t say it goes to shit, but when we’re in the trenches of parenting it 100% has a knock on effect on our marriage. But, we know we’ve been here once before and that things do get better. We’re on the same page about things, which helps. Though it’s been harder this time around with our second child I think. Couples therapy is a great idea, especially before making any drastic decisions and calling time on things- even better if you’re openly communicating about the potential benefits of it. But absolutely it’s hard!