My own mother

I feel like my mother, who has all her own narcissistic issues to begin with. I’m pretty sure is now using my nicu son (grand baby) for attention. And it’s starting to make me uncomfortable… She lied to me about having a head cold the week before meeting him. She insisted on coming to the hospital nicu to meet him. And while holding him, tells me this. I’m just like 😳 are you kidding me?! Well do not put your face anywhere near his. And please give him back to me. Cool. Fine. I’ve seen a lot of grandparents crossing those line recently. Sure I’m pissed she left it out/lied. But whatever What’s really got me feeling oddly is, She made me take a picture of her holding him before this happened. That she made her profile picture, sure, cute. Sweet. Gigi as she so commanded to be called loves her grandbaby. But, the people commenting on it? I don’t know AT ALL. Like not even slightly. Yet, some of them are saying things like I can’t wait to meet him! And such like that. And I’m sitting here like… excuse me? Who are you? And why would you be meeting my child? Is this just over protectiveness kicking in or something? Or is this also actually weird…