My husband makes me feel like I’m walking on egg shells.

I feel like no matter what I do I always have to “think” about how I do it so my husband doesn’t think anything. Crazy I know. But for example, today, I didn’t text back within 30 minutes and I’m now getting attitude and he seems like he is questioning what I was doing but in reality I was just aimless on TikTok. I get anxiety when he texts me because I feel like I have to respond right away and if not then he thinks something is up. Another example, even going out in public I don’t want to look around because I get accused of “wondering eyes”. There’s a lot of examples. But you get the picture… I just hate feeling like I am always doing something wrong.

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This is sick

your husband is a controlling asshole and this is borderline, if not straight up, abuse. tell him to piss off

Ugh! This is hard. I wonder if you can have an honest conversation and find some middle ground? Is he generally honest?

Is he hiding something,people like that usually have a guilty conscious. I would hate this, this is full on control, does he let you talk to family? What's he like when he goes to work..I would be having a conversation with him as this really isn't healthy

This is controlling at a minimum and a form of abuse.

You're describing abuse. Please continue to talk about this and get informed. When I was in an abusive relationship I couldn't see everything that was going on. I learned when I got out that it was without a shadow or a doubt, abusive. Sending you love strength and clarity and courage!

Narcissistic acts. Question has he ever hit you ? You seem a bit afraid in my opinion.

And you're with him because??? He's the father of your child(ren)?

@Pris im an idiot

Oh incognito you are not an idiot! I have been in this kind of relationship and seen where it leads, hell and back, and those of us who survived will tell you it’s easier to judge when you haven’t been there. I am not dumb, I was fooled by a narcissist. I hope you find the confidence and courage to see you can do hard things including leave if you’re not happy! If you have ANYONE who will listen, please seek their help. It’s hard but you can make it out. ❤️❤️❤️

It seems he is projecting

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