Personally, I'm now wanting it all the time, but towards the end of pregnancy, if he looked at me like he wanted it, I'd be shutting him down. But with my first it wasn't until around his first birthday that I started to get interested again. It really is different for everyone and if sleep is more important than get that sleep!! (If my friend said something like that to me, I wouldn't be counting them as a friend and DEFIANTLY wouldn't trust them anywhere near my man)
My sex drive went up when we started having our evenings back. So baby goes down at 7:30pm and we have the rest of the evening to chill out
Honestly I could have written this, you’re not alone. I love my husband to bits but just have 0 sex drive! It’s annoying!
Not alone at all. Maybe chat to him and see what other intimacy may be - as not everyone’s idea of intimacy is just sex and you may be surprised at how you’re finding some intimacy in other ways - cuddles, long kiss etc. x
For me I didn’t want to in pregnancy especially towards the end but since 4 weeks pp I’ve felt back to normal in that way. But it’s different for everyone and your hormones are till not completely back to normal. Personally I don’t think that was a kind comment of your friend to make even if it was a joke xx