How do you deal when you live with a weight shamer???
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hi friend! it’s important to remember that being HEALTHY is far more important than being fat, skinny, etc. and i would just remind ur mother of that. instead of weighing yourself or counting calories/not eating (or food obsessing) just do things that make u feel good and healthy that are good for ur body (taking a walk, going to the gym, zumba class, eat more fruits and veggies, etc) but do not overdo it!! its hard to find a balance especially when ur first starting off but doing things that are healthy for ur brain are going to give u a confidence and glow that “losing weight” could never give u. sending u all my love and positive energy 🤍
Thank you so much ladies. I really appreciate the kind words… I NEEDED them today so I don’t spiral ❤️
Sorry you’re going through this but your mom needs to get her shit together. I’m glad she said she would stop even though it was in a condescending manner.. I’d honestly pick up more hobbies to try and distract yourself from all the negativity that’s going on and hopefully you will meet someone new or be in a better environment. Your mom just sounds a little uneducated about the side effects some medicines can have. If YOU think it might be worth it, I’d explain that to her and let her know how your feelings are hurt. A real “daughter to mom” talk might snap her out of her current attitude towards you.. again sorry you’re going through this and I hope things get better. Stay positive and true to yourself 🤍