In a similar position kinda, i’m waiting on the surgery, i currently have a 3/4cm hole as my stitches ripped open too and caused infection. i’m waiting to properly heal before i have the surgery, not sure where you’re based but i was referred to ‘PAP’ (Pelvis After Pregnancy - Which specialise in this kind of thing) to discuss options (awaiting phone call in march) but the hospital has been so good to me. I can’t really give much advice as i haven’t had it yet but I hope this gets sorted asap for you and you’re welcome to message me anytime! Maybe ring your GP and explain the severe pain you’re in, maybe milk it and have a big cry but please be brutally honest so they can give you the support you need and even mention PAP - I’m Nottingham Based btw xxx sending loves
@Remigija I can’t afford to go private
@Leah I have another appointment with my GO today to speak about it further and find out what’s going to happen. I’m just retired for it hapoening again
Oh bless you i hope it goes well🤞🏼i can understand your worry and pain and it shouldn’t of happened in the first place, it makes you wonder doesn’t it! However, it could also work and be the best thing to happen, sometimes you have to take the risk🖤let me know xxx (if you want ofc)
@Leah thank you for your support. I’m being referred back to gynaecology again. Seems to just be swings and roundabouts xx
don’t be silly !! I know how you feel and it’s fucking horrible especially when/if you’re not getting the support and information you need! Bloody hellll, i hope they can do something about this then !! it’s a never ending cycle sometimes isn’t it😣xx
I would look for other options, maybe plastic surgeon too. NHS is usually usless.