MIL issues

Ladies, I genuinely don’t know where it has all going wrong with our MIL’s these days! Has it always been this way and our mothers didn’t prepare us? 😂 I’ve had nothing but passive aggressive nonsense since my daughter has been born and until I found this group I thought it was just me. I’ve taken it for a year but I’ve finally stood up for myself and called her out.. She has blocked me off of everything.. and now again I’m like is it me? 🙈 but I couldn’t take it anymore it was causing me so much stress.

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I feel that! My MIL is a complete monster and when I finally stood up to her, it went downhill fast and she became the meanest person I’ve ever met so I told her she wasn’t allowed around me or my daughter and blocked her. My husband saw everything go down over text and decided he didn’t want to deal with her anymore either (he’s always hated her for the way she treated him) but then the FIL tried to get involved and blame me so my husband blocked him too. We still have drama with them over a year later (2 years this May) trying any way possible to come back into our lives and my husband isn’t having it. Even my husband mentioned how stress free and happy we are without them involved

@Katie awww that’s awful. I’m so pleased for you that your partners eyes are opened on this too! I’m lucky that my MIL and FIL are divorced so he is fully aware of how she is. I hope they give you peace soon. It’s crazy to me that this is such an issue for our generation but proud of us for standing up to it x

My FIL used to put my MIL in her place but unfortunately he got caught cheating on her so he’s sucking up to her so they don’t divorce so she just runs wild now. We are also due with baby number 2 in a few weeks so she’s desperate to be involved again to get the baby snuggles but honestly she was so bad with our first child that I’d never let her even touch my kids. My grandma was a monster in-law too and my husband warned me about his mom so I kind of saw some of it coming just not to the extent she went to

I have absolutely nothing to do with my fathers mother. She always treated my mum poorly and my dad doesn’t have contact with her anymore. I havent seen her since I was 7 years old. She messaged me at 16 years old and I never responded. 28 now and been over 20 years! I was prepared for it🤣 although MIL cares about my daughter at least just not me which is more than my mums MIL I suppose hahaha

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