no sex drive !
i’m 4 months pp & i love my partner but i haven’t been in “ the mood “ since the end of my pregnancy and now i haven’t been since having the baby … i try to avoid it at all times. just haven’t been feeling it idky
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I went through the same thing and even now at 12 months pp there are times where it’s the last thing I want to do and hope my husband doesn’t ask about it 😅 Having conversations with him about what I need has definitely helped, and when we’re able to be intimate regularly, I feel more “in the mood.” Basically the more we do it, the more I want to do it. But it’s definitely so hard when we don’t have quality time, our baby won’t sleep, and I’ve spent all day meeting everyone else’s needs.
I went through the same. My sex drive finally started to slowly come back at 8 months pp. it’s completely normal. The first year is the hardest
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This is totally okay love!