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I’m so anxious, nervous, worried, every emotion about leaving my baby for 3 days. Me and my partner have a wedding to go, hit brothers, and is 6 hours away and they don’t want children there, plus it would be a hassle to bring her so my mum is having her. I was okay with it but now it’s 3 days away and I’m crying every day at the thought about what will happen and me being so far away. I don’t know how to cope. I know my mum will take good care of her but I’m my head I’m just thinking the worst 😭
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I know it's such a difficult decision but I think that the bride/groom should be understanding if you decided not to go considering you've got a young baby and they chose not to have children at the wedding x

I agree with Megan ^^^ Alternately could you not go for less days? I’m not sure if you’re flying or driving or getting the train but would it be an option to leave early on the wedding day and stay over and come back early the next day? This means you’re only leaving baby for 1 night instead of 3

I never understand child free weddings. I know it's their choice but it seems like an odd choice. I exclusively breastfeed so, would not attend the wedding. Sorry you're in this position. Could your mum come with baby and stay in the hotel for the wedding?

We have the exact same situation later in the year, thankfully our wedding is close to home so we have declined to attend the three full days, my partner will attend the entire wedding day and i plan to figure out how i feel closer to the time. Personally, i wouldn’t leave baby that long and if you’re that upset i would trust your gut that you and baby aren’t ready for it x

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