I agree with Megan ^^^ Alternately could you not go for less days? I’m not sure if you’re flying or driving or getting the train but would it be an option to leave early on the wedding day and stay over and come back early the next day? This means you’re only leaving baby for 1 night instead of 3
I never understand child free weddings. I know it's their choice but it seems like an odd choice. I exclusively breastfeed so, would not attend the wedding. Sorry you're in this position. Could your mum come with baby and stay in the hotel for the wedding?
We have the exact same situation later in the year, thankfully our wedding is close to home so we have declined to attend the three full days, my partner will attend the entire wedding day and i plan to figure out how i feel closer to the time. Personally, i wouldn’t leave baby that long and if you’re that upset i would trust your gut that you and baby aren’t ready for it x
I know it's such a difficult decision but I think that the bride/groom should be understanding if you decided not to go considering you've got a young baby and they chose not to have children at the wedding x