Sleep overs

Looking for some advice, we have a holiday booked in March for 4 nights. This was booked before I got pregnant. I was planning on booking my baby onto the holiday but his grandparents have said they will him, go and have a break. Now my friend is telling me that I shouldn't be leaving him for that long at 10 weeks. Should I be leaving him or booking him on?

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It’s a really personal decision and only you can make it. It entirely depends on if you are comfortable leaving baby and if you are, go and enjoy yourself!! Don’t be made to feel guilty by your friend. We all deserve a break

Do you think you’d be able to enjoy 4 days and night away from them? Or will you spend the 4 days worrying?

@Millie I honestly don't know until it get to it i think. I've only spent 2 hours away from him so far but I really needed the 2 hours alone time if that makes sense. I feel guilty saying I didn't miss him but I think that was because he was with my partner

You could always ask his grandparents if you can test it out for one night and see how you are with it like say they have him one night a couple weeks before and see how you feel being apart from him for 1 night and have a date night or chill evening in with baby’s dad assuming you’re not a single mum, idk if that’s a good idea or not as then Mabie you will have more of an idea on if you will be worrying the whole time or not x

@Jasmine that's a good idea thank you

That’s okay, if you’re okay being apart from him enjoy your hols and just ignore anyone that’s judgmental about it, everyone deserves a break at some point and it will be nice for his grandparents to have a bit of bonding time with him x

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