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I get frustrated, I don't scream, but I don't regularly do. It's okay to scream if that helps you to regulate. I try to get the baby to get distracted, pacifier toys, etc. If nothing works, i try to give her to someone else. They feel your frustration, so the more angry you are, they mirror your emotions. When I am calm, I take her back, and it is way easier to calm the baby down. Hope it helps. Maternity is not easy. You are doing the best you can, and that's more than enough.
I'm not the kind of person to yell. I've always been on the quieter side. I do get frustrated though and have to step away for a minute.
I don’t have rage towards my baby but I do towards my husband and older two kiddos. I don’t scream physically but internally. And I do it quite often. I feel like I can’t escape some times. I’ve never had ppd or PPA with my other two so this is a whole different ball game. I truly hate it because I love them all so much but it’s hard some days.
It’s totally normal, my first 2 months were maddening. I really feel bad for getting ridiculously frustrated. But it’s ok. We don’t speak baby from the start it’s something that comes to us with time. My baby is now 4 months, still not sleeping through the night, keeping me up sometimes up to 3am but it’s getting better. It all gets better. Hang in there.
no girl u aren't the.only one I've had at moment like that recently and my family judge me for it and I don't know to feel like do they understand?I always have the mom guilt and feel so bad afterwards
I can relate. I scream into my bed tho. Fully walk away, talk a couple minutes to yourself. If you have a partner or family who can watch LO while you breathe, that’s great. If not, baby screaming for a couple minutes by themselves won’t hurt them. You are valid, your feelings are valid.