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Do people say what they really feel when in an argument?
My BF was telling me about an argument she had with her husband, they have been having some issues within their relationship, but in the argument he said the only way out he can see is to top himself
I really didn't know what to say, and it made me wonder if he has said it to try and win the argument as he usually always threatens a divorce
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Yeah that’s a tough one as every person and scenario is different! I’ve definitely said things I haven’t meant as arguments are so fast paced you don’t have time to process or rationally structure what you’re about to say and sometimes people just panic. I would say it’s worth them talking about what was said once everything has calmed down!
From what she tells me, but obviously I only hear one side of the story, whenever they get in an argument or disagreement, he threatens leaving, which to me is him trying to control her and make her do things the way he wants, it's the first time I've heard him say he'll top himself. I just don't know what to say to her to be honest
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It’s such a tough one and so easy to say when you’re feeling unhinged and it’s in an arguement xx I hope things get resolved and it’s all okay c