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Am I overthinking it?
I got a message from my partner this morning and maybe I’m just overthinking it, but he’s working away at the moment and this message just doesn’t make sense to me. I can’t relate to it. I can’t help feeling he’s just picked the wrong message to send me. Maybe it made him laugh but we’re not sexually active together. I have a low Lobido he has a much higher sex drive to me and I’m honestly just not interested in sex at the moment.
And maybe it’s my anxiety and I’m really overthinking it, but I kind of feel this message could’ve been for someone else.
Especially saying that it’s motto of the day.
What are your thoughts, please?
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You're overthinking this. Yeah, he's probably hinting that he wants to have sex more, but I don't blame him as it sounds like you barely do.
I just wanted to say there is nothing wrong with not wanting sex…everyone and their relationship is different…he probably is hinting but from my experience that is men. If you are worried, could you have a conversation with him and explain how it’s made you feel and explain some reasons for not being in the mood. I spoke to my partner about how I was feeling and it helped
@maddie exactly that. No one should be shamed for not wanting to have sex. It’s not fair for @Rebecca or anyone to say otherwise
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I think you’re overthinking it tbh. He likely is either hinting or just sending you something he relates to overall. It’s not necessarily specific to this exact timing. I would send my partner stuff like this all the time despite us not having sex due to me being heavily pregnant and him not wanting it.