If you are I am - I didn’t even really like people holding my baby apart from dad and my mum and dad. X
Why wouldn't you be obsessive over your baby? You're literally their mother and it's just maternal instincts. Ignore those comments and continue to be obsessive as much as you like ☺️
Yes of course it’s obsessive… aren’t we all obsessed over our babies. It’s normal and we love them course we gonna obsess over them! I obsess over my 7 year old too. I just love em so much! They so adorable !
@Julia I am protective because that’s my world! But I’ve been made to feel so crap that I’m being ‘obsessive’ over my child because I watch people he’s being held. Also because I don’t want to leave him alone with anyone as of yet
@Julia thank you x
@Jade I was the same at the beginning but because my partner has a big family there was no way that could happen. Everyone just picked him up & even kissed him 😩x
@Jenny thank you for this. No matter how many kids you have you’ll always be protective x
@Elaine I was so confident before but now it’s really affected me :( I’m always overthinking x
@Katie louise thank you for this 🥹🥹makes me feel valid that I can be obsessed about my baby
I got told to relax and stop watching my baby all the time by my MIL. I told her I was relaxed & that it would be more weird if I didn’t care, or watch him at all. Sometimes people need to just shut the f*ck up if it’s not their child. It makes me so angry 🤬
@Taliah same! I feel like all MILs are the same lol
I'm the same, my little boy is now 8 months but I'll hover around anyone whose holding him so yes call me obsessive too 🙌🫶🏻
@Taliah it makes me angry too! I got the same 😩😩
No! Absolutely not! You have an instinct to be protective. That's your baby. You do you. Other people should stop criticising you for something that is innate. X