Just need to vent

Ever since the baby is here I have a very low tolerance towards my husband. He does something wrong and it’s immediately like the end of the world to me. It’s difficult for me to control this anger that I feel and I just go from 0 to a 100 real quick. My voice towards him is full of anger and loud and just really not nice. Treading him like the most stupid person on earth. I tell him to please be careful to not upset me because I’m really easily to be upset ever since we have the baby and it’s difficult for me to control my temper. Instead of doing that we happen to have a situation every single day in which I feel like he tries to provoke me. The latest situation was me preparing something and he wanted to help me. I showed him how I do it. Baby started crying and I needed to nurse and I saw how he changed the technique and the it just didn’t look the way I wanted it to look. I kindly asked him to please do it the way that I wanted or just let it be and I’ll do it once I’m done nursing. He just continued doing four more things which got me so angry that we ended up in a fight. His last words were that I really gotta watch my temper and the way I’m raising my voice towards him and that he’s not deserving of it because he was only trying to do me a favor. But that’s just not doing me a favor when he is not doing it the way that I wanted it. Now we’re in a fight and he says I should be thankful he tried to help me but he’s not getting my point. Besides the fact that he didn’t do it the way I wanted it it annoys me even more that he does these things, knowing it drives me crazy right now and still doing them and then being upset that I’m crazy. I know I probably have to lay low but it’s just not possible for me right now.