in December 2024 Babies 🇺🇸

Early Morning Vents

Having a baby with someone that isn’t a happy individual overall really affects your postpartum. I love my child with my whole heart and I wouldn’t change her but her father isn’t who I thought he was and I feel so terrible for my child because this is the father I chose for her. A man that isn’t vulnerable and that’s narcissistic. I poured my heart out to this man for over an hour so he can see how I feel on things and this man only picked out what he wanted to hear. I have a whole village in nyc waiting for me and idk if staying in ct with her father is a good option for either of us. Don’t get me wrong he’s a good dad but not a good partner. I wish I can give a back story so this would make more sense but I’ll need to talk on the phone on how much shit it is. I just feel defeated I put up with so much

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It’s not worth it. Go to NYC ♡

Go wherever you and babe are happiest, if feasible. Life is too short

Pack your bags and leave your daughter deserves to watch you be treated well ask him if he’s the type of man he would want his daughter to be with that might hit home for him but it may be what he needs to hear

@Sabrina I’m just so hurt because I wanted to break the generational curse of not having a father and finally give her that and I feel like all shitty mom because I didn’t do better and now history will repeat I can’t stop crying because I don’t want my daughter mad at me because I couldn’t give that to her. P.s I tried to tag all three of you but it won’t let me

Go to NYC 💕 It’s important to surround her with as much love and support during this time. For yourself as well! Don’t feel guilty about leaving but keep the door open for him to try to have a relationship with her. Once she gets older she will be able to see that mommy was doing what was best for both of you and not settling for less than what you guys deserved 🫶🏾

I don’t know the whole story … but … One thing to consider: from everything I ve read about postpartum… it is VERY common to resent your partner… mama is sleep deprived , very vulnerable, hormones are depleted… in that state we are extra sensitive…. During newborn stage it is very common for couples to fight more than ever… every woman i know who just gave birth has some kind of resentment or anger towards her partner … it is normal… Depending on the situation… I would say just be patient with yourself… give your relationship time … usually things start to improve after 4 months of pp

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