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I honestly don’t know what to do. I simply asked my husband what do I do that puts you in the mood because I can’t tell. Like I honestly feel like it’s only if he wants sex that it becomes okay. He responded with idk. Like how can you not know what your partner of 6 years does that turns you on. I can list a million reasons and ways he turns me on and he just goes idk, and then I started tearing up and he tells me that he can’t talk because I’m too sensitive and that makes him feel guilty. What am I supposed to do just pretend to be fine so he can say whatever he wants?
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@Lyss honestly you’re exactly right this has been happening our entire relationship and I’m so done with it. He never wants to talk unless he’s trying to break apart what I have to say and use it against me
Yeah when they use it against you that’s not having a mature discussion where you grow and learn together. That’s not a fair relationship! Your voice and opinion matters!! So when they can’t have basic decent human conversations on how to problem solve together then there is no point cuz it’s like talking to a brick wall.
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Eww!! Fuck him!! I hate when they say you are too sensitive as the reason they can’t talk about it! That’s gaslighting!! So no don’t pretend everything is fine!! Your feelings are valid!! But honestly with him gaslighting you that’s a big red flag. So don’t let him say that you are too sensitive… tell him is he too sensitive to have a grown up conversation?! Cuz what the fuck!! You deserve way better!