Feeling guilty :(

I definitely always wanted two babies but now I’m pregnant with the second the guilt I feel towards my first baby is wild, I feel so sad she’s not going to get my full attention anymore and we won’t get to spend the time we spend together now, is this a normal feeling?

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Yeah totally normal, I also felt this a bit. But now my second is 6.5 months old and like she’s always been here ☺️

Yes, and you will probably still feel a little guilt when they come and you have to divide your time. At least I do, but I try to get one on one time with the toddler while the baby is asleep. But it's so worth it to see her smile talking to her little sister 🙂 baby is only 2 months but older sister already loves her, talks to her and tries to make her smile. It's amazing seeing your kiddos bond. Your first baby will love having someone to go through life with!

Very normal feeling. The first couple of weeks when my second came along I felt like I was mourning the relationship I had with my first, I cried a lot and felt so guilty. But we’re over a year on now and they are starting to do the same activities and properly play together and it’s gorgeous to see. It’s utterly chaotic, really hard work and challenging but my gosh there are some amazingly joyous and pure love moments and I live for that!

Oh thanks so much girls really needed to hear this. I’m so excited for see her as a big sister just hope she is happy ❤️

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