I had 3 back to back, the oldest is barely 4. It’s hormonal love, I would 10000000% recommend to just wait. You aren’t granting them a playmate like you think, it tends to get far more overwhelming than anything else. Multiples practically going through the same phases is wild. & personally I do think having them so close together is the reason my pregnancies started taking a toll on my body the more I had kids. Our bodies have the material to make them but sometimes I don’t think it really wants to other than for survival. I would do what’s truly best for your mental AND physical health. 😅 I wish you luck with where life takes you regardless!
Tell him if you wait another year you’re gonna have to start over. Start over on like diapers. And you’ll get used to sleeping again and being in a good routine. But if you don’t wait then you’ll just be able to ride the same wave you’re on now. And you still get 9 months to prep. Our first two are 19 months apart. It’s great. But now I have a 3 year old and a 1.5 year old so when we get pregnant hopefully this summer the second will be 2 almost 2.5 and we are already in such a good routine that it’s kind of gonna be such a big weird change when we have to go back into the newborn stage
I understand where ur coming from I think it’s actually very common for us to have baby fever soon after we’ve just had one. I know I had it & so did my sister. Especially if you’ve got a perfect lil baby all the way around n u c them growing so fast it kills u to know that lil baby is not gonna b a lil baby for very long so u want another one. Mine is 3 now, I’m 42 & single but I still get baby fever lol.