Feeling a bit negative and pessimistic after frozen transfer

Anyone else Have a FT after a loss and just feel a bit emotional and possibly at time negative or pessimistic about it . I want to be positive but i haven’t really been the luckiest in this process and I keep thinking I don’t think it worked .. it’s day 2 🤦🏼‍♀️. People keep saying be positive and you have to have a good mind set , be stress free and calm … but that’s easier said than done. I want to be a positive zen goddess but I’m not . I’m a broken scared anxious woman on lots of hormones ! I’m hoping this one sticks I’m hoping this one is my baby that I can hold but ima lap to scared to hope and get to invested in the possibility… This one is our first frozen transfer and it was PGT tested as we lost two previous pregnancies to chromosomal abnormalities. .. So anyone else not the perfect zen positive thinking person right now , fighting hormones and trying to just keep head down and get through this ?

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I am right with you. Currently 7w1d after FET and fedling like i wont get good news at my first scan. After a loss, its so hard to be positive

@Patrice aah I know that feeling. It’s so difficult. I feel us who have had such loss also have the joy of simple things taken from us. It’s like we know to much now .. first time pregnant you never imagine losing .. you see that double line and you are already picking out names and what kind of parent you will be and how you gonna tell you family and friends . It’s such joy and excitement and then after a loss that positive test although you are so happy .. something else kicks in .. and it’s like hunger games .. ok I got through the first step .. now for the next .. will I make it all the way this time . I hope for you this is your turn and you make it all the way . Sending all the baby dust . 🌈

I hope nothing but success for us. You took the words out of my mouth. It definitely feels like we are always like ok we made it through 1 step lets make it to the next step

@Patrice feel free to dm me if you ever need to chat. This can sometimes be so lonely but we got this . On thing this journey shows us is how strong we are xx

Yes i am so up for that. Dm me because it wont let me dm you

@Patrice done 🥰

I had an ectopic then two chemicals. Finally got pregnant with twins but lost one at 10 weeks. I gave birth to a healthy baby girl in the end. I had another baby (boy) after her also ivf. It was a scary journey with lots of anxiety but very much worth it.

@Susan Thank you for sharing this 💕🥰

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