Tired of ex mother in law…

I never enjoy her visits when she comes round to see my daughter. Shes very judgmental and when me and her son first found out i was pregnant and told her (i was 6-7weeks pregnant) she told me to get rid of it up until 26ish weeks pregnant. I understand its a big adjustment and stuff and if she said give me time to wrap my head round it, i wouldnt mind that but she didnt. For context i was 16 and her son was 18 and then i split up with her son at 28 week’s pregnant due to him lying to me all the time and after we split up he went trying to get with all different girls, i didnt hear of him or his family until i gave birth. She has asked me multiple times if she can have the baby for the day and she is 10 weeks tomorrow and exclusively breastfed and i keep saying no as 1. She cant cause im breastfeeding and 2. Im not ready to let anyone have her. She has told me to stop breastfeeding so she can have the baby which i said no. I had an emergency c section and asked that no one announced my daughters arrival on social media until i was ready and she ignored that and announce it which piSSed me off! But i always feed the baby before she comes round as im not comfortable feeding infront of anyone but my close family and the baby is always dead fussy with my ex mil and she says all the time that im starving the baby and says to the baby “is your mum not feeding you enough, should nanny …. Give you a bottle” and i say all the time shes not hungry shes just fed and shes not having bottles as i had a bottle as a baby and never took back to the breast. I also dont post my daughter on social media at all as i dont want her on social media until she is old enough to make that decision herself and if i do post a photo with her in i cover her face with an emoji or something, and she keeps asking if she can post just one photo of her and i keep saying no and she says “i will talk you into it eventually” which is just utter rude in my opinion