Anyone else?

Mums who are 30+ do you find that it’s becoming even more difficult to make friends especially mommy friends now in life then in your twenties? Anyone else in the west midland area or surrounding looking to have more of a social life??
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I live in Michigan

Yes, I’m in Kansas

Yes!!! I’m in NC and it’s crazy it’s like everyone has their own clique and I’m not in it. 🤣 I found out there’s a neighborhood moms chat I’m apparently not cool enough for.

Aww sorry to hear that but I’m always open to meeting new people and helping each other grow and evolve. I’m in Miami

It's hard, everyone. i kinda know or meet are just now having babies, and my youngest is going to be 9. Then they still on their parting stage

Same here! I will be 35 this year and still find it hard to connect 😪 😆

This is really unfortunate and seems to be the common topic on this app.. Must he an American cultural issue because I don’t understand how so many pple have this issue on an app supposedly geared towards friendships. I see so many post about cliques and fake personalities and it is a weird way to move as adults. I’m sorry that you all are experiencing this… Do you guys not have friends from before motherhood or is it just additional friends you are searching for?

I’ve found it hardest with my third - I had my eldest at 29 then one at 32 then one at 39. With my first I was super excited, eager to make friends etc and I guess now I’m super busy having 3 to look after but also at play groups etc now a lot of the mums are a lot younger so we have less in common or I’ve not even attempted to talk to them as I feel old! Although more recently I have made a couple of very lovely mummy friends by putting myself out there rather than holding back! Once I got talking to some of the other mums I realised actually we get on really well but I had been nervous to make the first approach!

Yes. I find it very difficult making friends. I’m currently in Boston, Massachusetts.

Omg yes.

I'm 32 but I actually am finding it more common that the moms are my age or older, but I think it's because I live in a college town so a lot of people here wait until later in life to have babies

Yes. The older I get, the deeper I fall into being JUST a mom and wife. Finding friends has been impossible

No, you've got to engage with other people when you're out at mom groups or kid groups. Talk to other people don't be in your phone. If you want friends you've got to talk and get uncomfortable.

Yes,I am in Dallas tx

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