No support from husband
Our baby is 6 months old now. My husband left his job month ago and is still in search of work. Since he’s been home he doesn’t do anything unless I point it out with my fingers. I’m mentally drained. When he’s with the baby he’s always on his phone. He will only put his phone away when I come into the room. He doesn’t clean after himself just leaves everything on the floor. I get up at night with the baby and in the morning while he sleeps in like he’s tried from cleaning, taking care of the house and baby. It’s mentally draining. I don’t have family here in Texas, I’m from Ireland and my whole family is there, even if I wanted to just separate for my mental health I can’t as I’ve no support here. I do want to make it all work but I’m tired. I’m drained and hating life and I’m only here because of my lovely daughter, if not her I’d just end it all.
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We had the same talk like three times. He does great for like two days and then back to the same bullshit
That’s exactly how my bf is. I’ve had to talk to him about his behavior multiple times since our son was born and it’s getting out of hand. Each time he does good for a longer period of time before I gotta talk to him again. I know exactly what yours feeling. If you want you can private message me. I’ve been wanting to talk to someone who knows exactly how I feel about this situation but everyone seems like they have the perfect happy little family
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I totally get everything your feeling my boyfriend is the same exact way except he does have a job but it’s not even a full time 9-5 type job so he doesn’t have any excuse to act the way he does. Sometimes I just wanna slap him upside the fucking head and tell him it’s over. I’m so sorry you don’t have family or anyone there to support you. All I can say really is tell him how you feel and tell him how he can do better. It might not work but hopefully it does. My bf is just to stubborn he’s done a lot better but recently he’s been doing this stupid shit again so it might come in waves but I just hope you can be happy like you deserve and hopefully it’s with your husband but if not then still you deserve to be happy one way or another