Cheating!!!
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it’s really hard to come back from that
Honestly the same thing happened to me. Please make sure you make the right choice i wont say leave but i wont say stay i wanted to stay but realised i cant not until i know what i want for sure. I dont hate him or anything im just disappointed. Do what YOU think is right. I love my ex and i hope he comes bk when the time is right but right now im choosing to focus on my baby and my infant son. Its bloody hard but i know its worth it. I feel he needs time to reflect on himself no matter how long that takes. Hope this helps😊 message me if you wanna talk more sweetie you got this mamaxx
Do you have community, ie friends, family or a support system? I think when we face these issues it really comes down to how much we love and value our self, because loving a partner more than ourselves gets us trapped in these relationships. I’m so sorry that you are going through this!
I found out my ex got his ex pregnant and had the child in secret… while I was pregnant with my second child at 6 months. I understand the pain and confusion you are going through. Honestly I tried to make it work but at the end after 2 years of trying I still ended it. Cuz I just kept seeing who he was and all the secrets and lying. It turns your world upside down. It’s not worth it to stay. You deserve better! 🫶🏻
As someone who went back to a cheating ex, don’t do it. I was in my 20’s and we didn’t have children together so it is different, but I was miserable and had low self esteem and hated my life. I’ve now found my husband and father to my baby (19 weeks pregnant) who wouldn’t dream of hurting me. You can do better than someone who cheats on you.