We have the halo dream swaddle. We took one arm out for a couple nights and then both. I like this one bc the flaps wrap around her body and I think she likes the compression that she still gets with the swaddle if that makes sense. Her arms are still out but she still has tightness around her chest
Went through this a few weeks ago as well, and we used to love the love to dream arms up swaddles. Honestly, we just went for it, and put her in a sleep sack – I will say sleep was affected by it, unfortunately, but they say the sleep sack gets rid of their Startle reflex quicker so they dont wake themselves up as much - so we just bit the bullet and went for it – and it’s so much better now!
With my first, we used the love to dream transition swaddle and let one arm out at a time. My 5mo never liked being swaddled so she’s been arms out pretty much since getting home from the hospital
I’m in the same boat love to dream has a transition sleep sack that you can take the arms off so we’ve been switching arms each night until he gets used to it