Toddler speech and mood swings

I really need some help and advice. I have a 33 month old son who is not talking or communicating as other kids of his age. I am a little worried. He is a sweet boy and never used to throw tantrums or cry. We could take him anywhere and he would have his own playtime. He is shy and doesn't like to interact but lately he is gets irritated with smallest of the things and starts crying or fake crying. The other day he kicked off big time when we tried to take him to our usual eatery. I had to bring him home without going in. We are in touch with a healthcare worker but she doesn't think there is anything wrong. I am not saying, there is anything wrong but I just want to help my son and make him feel happy and comfortable. Not speaking must be hard for him as well. Any idea what I should do? How do I keep him entertained and help him to communicate? Any advice would be appreciated! I just love him so much and hate feeling helpless and stressed about him. Thank you xx
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Does he like doing activities like drawing maybe you could set up a pack for the travel on way to anywhere youre going. Is he entertained at home? Apparently the tonies boxes are supposed to be good and do you think he's kicking off because he can't communicate with you? My son isn't talking as much as other toddlers his age either although his speech is coming along and he's very badly behaved which sucks because I feel like such a bad Mam when I raise my voice a little too much I'm still learning how to keep my self calm when he misbehaves x

Our health visitor gave us some activites to work on at home to help develop speech. Perhaps drop her a line and ask if she could send some to you?

@Rhiannon he doesn't do drawing much or any other toy for that matter. He plays with all the toys in his own way. I don't mind that as I like he explores everything in his own way. But he isn't talking or communicating. For example, if I ask him to get the shoes, or socks, he won't do it. But if I show him socks or shoes he will sit down because he know I I want to put them on. Similarly, he doesn't talk but just leads me by my hand to do something, example, if he wants milk he will take me to the place where he knows I keep the bottles. But he doesn't say anything. Not even mama and dada. He won't point either. If you ask him, where is your mama, he won't point to me. I spoke to healthcare worker a few times. She suggested to try a few things including a program called 'may I join you' but I am not sure if it is helping. Also when I ask her if she sees any red flags, she give me very umbrella answer like, 'every child is special, we should mould our world according to him'.

I understand her sentiment but I want a bit more direct answer. What should I do?

@J our healthcare visitor suggested to do the 'may I join you!' Program. But I am not sure if it is doing anything. What should I do? Whom do I speak to?

Do you have a ChatHealth service in your area? It's a parent line that you can text for support. If you Google chat health and your area it should come up. They should be able to offer additional support. How long ago or how often do you see your health visitor?

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