Dog in bed

Tonight my daughter wanted the dog on the bed. I do not usually allow it because she has potty issues and I’d rather not wake up to an irritating surprise in my bed. But anyways the question is do yall allow your pets on the bed? Oh and she snores and dog talks in her sleep. Whats up with everybody including my pets talking and doing stuff in their sleep. Did we pass it down to the pets and kids or is it just normal 😅 I’m tempted to put her back on her bed I can’t sleep because I fear her peeing on my bed and it’s triggering my anxiety which is prohibiting me from peacefully falling asleep but my 2yr old daughter will throw a tantrum if I take her friend off the bed!! How do I go about this without having to suffer through an explosive tantrum? I don’t have a close bond with this dog but she for some reason is bonded to me. I thought she’d be bonded to my husband more no lie. I wake up everyday to this dog and the cats all surrounding me on my bed!! 😭😭😭 I don’t leave her outside the room because I don’t like being alone and I can’t leave her alone because it wouldn’t be fair, but how do I get her to stay on her bed and not on my bed to cuddle with me without my consent while I’m asleep. Why is she more bonded to me even though I do my best to keep my distance from her because she’s just a trigger for me rn. She has two other humans to get love from why does she want love from me? I tried googling these answers and still no real clue why. When we come home she runs to me first. But I always tell her to leave me alone!! Is it normal for dogs to bond to the person who likes them the least?

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I read your other post. This is why getting professional training is important. And in all honesty (yes I will most likely get hate from not only you but maybe others) you do not need to own pets. You talked about wanting to rage because your dog is misbehaving. You are irritated that a pet is wanting to be next to their human at night “without consent” I really hope you get this dog in training and you seek some help with containing rage about pet not being trained. Or if you rehome the dog please don’t get another…. Because this is not okay in the slightest. I’m literally a dog trainer, and own a husky. My dog is around my daughter, food, and everything else. She sleeps in bed with us. Has my dog had accidents? Yes. She’s been sick and not only thrown up every but has had explosive diarrhea everywhere in the house. Have I ever gotten pissed off at her? Hell no. She’s a part of this family.

Gabrielle May I share your profile reads “not looking for friends just use this for groups”… I assume OP was looking for friendly advice not advice from someone who clearly is on here for the wrong reasons (just to be judgemental). If anyone is okay with dog pee in your bed raise your hand……………. Didn’t think so. I mean we’d all probably rage a bit about it if we were say.. human. Doesn’t mean she wouldn’t be a good dog owner and you’d be taking A LOT of good dog owners off the table if that’s the basis you’re using for not having a dog. Then you’d be complaining about the dog to owner ratio and all the dogs in shelters. Can’t make everyone happy OP and I’d make the dog get off my bed 😒

@Siera her issue is that in my other post I stated I am possibly suffering from pet aversions but people like her fail to realize that making a post asking for advice is me trying to be a better pet mom by finding people who have been through it as well and seeing what they ended up doing to fix it for their sake and pets sake. I have no clue what she commented on here because after asking her not to comment negative judgements under it she blocked me but I really don’t mind being blocked by somebody who can’t respect that other people have emotions that may be different from theirs in certain situations. Thank you so much for speaking out against the negativity tho!! It’s a hard topic and I want people to feel comfortable being able to speak up about it so maybe less people resort to rehoming and instead find a solution towards coping and healing!! Pregnancy does so much to women and not every pregnancy is the same. So I hope this can open the door to talking about other hard topics

@Siera oh and last night I did take the dog off the bed because my intuition was ringing so loud that she was going to pee and as soon as I took her off she peed. Luckily I got her onto her tray in time or my carpet or bed would’ve been soaked in dog pee 😭😭🫠 and she was walked prior too and peed and pooped prior to multiples times in front of me in the home and outside when hubby walked her 😭😭🫠

Takes a while for her to build her bladder up. Keep working with her. You got this!

@Siera thank you ♥️♥️♥️

Sorry but no pets in the bed 🤣🤮🤮

@🥰👨‍👩‍👦 I fully agree and hate when she even tries to come on the bed. The cats I barely tolerate on the bed but the dog is a big Nono. I gave in for my daughter last night just to calm her down but I quickly took that dog off the bed and am glad I did. It’s to unhygienic for me and when we move and ultimately get a new bed especially when I have our baby there will be a strict very very strict no pets on the bed rule!!

@🥰👨‍👩‍👦 no licking no jumping no pets on the bed no eating food pets on tables no pets in the kitchen no pets in the bathroom when I’m in there!!!

And no pets in the closet either!! I do not trust those poopee bits at all 😭😭

And also if there’s carpet in the house we rent No pets in carpeted areas!!!!

I learned a valuable lesson this time around!!!

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