I have this same problem even though I know for a fact he's cheating. He asks his friend to tell me he would never cheat but a woman messaged me and told me that he said he needed a new mommy for his kids bc I was dead. She sent me screenshots.I ask about it and he says his Facebook got hacked but it's always his excuse and then he makes another account and does it until I catch him again and the same excuse
Its obviously on his mind..do you suspect something here?
My ex would always talk about people cheating and how disgusting it was. Until I realised there was a pattern, he’d only ever talk about cheating when it was a woman on a man and turns out he cheated for 14 years…so 🤷🏻♀️
@Joy Oh no, that’s terrible. He would send me videos of men catching women cheating on them and it’s starting to get very strange. His insecurity didn’t come until we moved in together.
Keep your eyes open. He might be doing something behind your back and is trying to be manipulative. My EX was the same, turn out he was cheating the whole time, the female contacted me to let me know with evidence including videos too. There’s no need to keep such topic alive if you are sure of yourself and intentions.
My ex acted like this... because he was cheating lol and was paranoid I was to (I'm not a skeeze bag)
@Eve Deva Yeah I definitely think he is doing something because why be so paranoid about it. There is more to life than worrying about if someone is cheating
So he went through my phone and a guy did say I was beautiful but I didn't respond yet he gets mad at me when he is the one asking other woman for sex since I don't always feel like doing it
Anyone I know to act this way has always been doing something they shouldn’t
It's called deflection
It’s either it’s happened to them and they can’t let it go or they’re cheating and using it as a way to manipulate your thoughts of them