Friends

I’ve just moved house and feel further away and disconnected from everyone at the moment but has anyone felt like they’ve lost touch with friends they would have counted as a best friend before becoming pregnant? Since the early stages of being pregnant she has done nothing but comment on how much stuff my baby has already (it was two plastic underbed storage boxes) 🫣 I’ve barely heard or seen her since late Feb but she came to my baby shower Saturday just gone and again makes several comments about how many gifts I had for my baby… I don’t know but just feel like any little minute she can she makes a dig? Never checks in anymore…
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Yeah sadly I've heard this happen quite often when they don't have children themselves they won't understand until they do and wouldn't like it if it was the other way round and they was getting ignored/left out etc

Few people have told me this but really struggled to believe it, she asked me once how I was after I’d started the chat regarding something else. I said yeah I’m okay but can’t lie been better and her response was something along the lines of “yeah gets like that in third trimester” like what how do you know?? Never had a child 🫣🙄

Wow...just wow. Believe me you find out who ya true mates are once u have a kid

Oh 100% with you there, makes me want to remove her off everything but really don’t want to be that petty lol

I've cut ✂️ people out my life before I had my son as they just don't bother. I had a school friend (knew her for years) I bought her sons stuff every birthday and every Xmas, she's bought my son nothing not even got a card off her it just shows some just wanna use and abuse ya 😑

That’s so bad, why are people like this?? I also understand that she has just moved too but she is also not the one 9 months pregnant and she also drives where I don’t lol. I don’t know, just at a very different stage I feel.

Yep and when this happens people move on like it's that easy to make new best friends these days 🤷

Where is it your based?

I’m in a place in Kent called Dover?

Ahh nice

My inbox is always open 💁‍♀️

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