How soon after birth did you go back to bed with husband?

Ahhhh I’m just not ready Isit me being weird and horrible or should I have done it by now, even though minds not there and have twins to manage? …. Help🤯🤯
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Do you mean like sleeping in the same bed? Do y’all sleep separately?

we slept together immediately after coming home from the hospital.. but i’m not sure if that’s wym. this post is worded a little odd . but intimacy wise we waited 4wks pp until we started having sex again .

if you’re talking about intimacy, i waited the full 6 weeks because of the constant bleeding.

I had a c section, so I waited the 6 weeks.

For intimacy: waited 6 weeks. To sleep in the same bed: waited 5 weeks because ai had a c-section and our bed is high. I had a hard time getting in the bed.

Sorry yes I meant intimacy 🫣

8 weeks for intimacy after vaginal birth

6 weeks for this baby. 8 weeks with my first

3 months. Cause there’s no way in hell we were gonna risk infection.

4 months and my husband was patient and waited. We tried at the 6 weeks mark but it hurt. Trued again a few weeks later and was better but not good so we waited more. Its not you being weird. Your body needs time to heal mentally and physically. Also I can imagine with twins the last thing on your mind is sex.

3 months. I had a 4th degree tear and still had a granuloma at 6 weeks. I needed more time for things not to be painful. Even now we are only intimate about once a month. It's hard to find the time/energy/desire with one new baby in the house. I can't imagine how I'd feel with twins. Don't be hard on yourself!!

We’ve had sex like twice, and I truly miss it, but most nights I just feel to exhausted.

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