we slept together immediately after coming home from the hospital.. but i’m not sure if that’s wym. this post is worded a little odd . but intimacy wise we waited 4wks pp until we started having sex again .
if you’re talking about intimacy, i waited the full 6 weeks because of the constant bleeding.
I had a c section, so I waited the 6 weeks.
For intimacy: waited 6 weeks. To sleep in the same bed: waited 5 weeks because ai had a c-section and our bed is high. I had a hard time getting in the bed.
Sorry yes I meant intimacy 🫣
8 weeks for intimacy after vaginal birth
6 weeks for this baby. 8 weeks with my first
3 months. Cause there’s no way in hell we were gonna risk infection.
4 months and my husband was patient and waited. We tried at the 6 weeks mark but it hurt. Trued again a few weeks later and was better but not good so we waited more. Its not you being weird. Your body needs time to heal mentally and physically. Also I can imagine with twins the last thing on your mind is sex.
3 months. I had a 4th degree tear and still had a granuloma at 6 weeks. I needed more time for things not to be painful. Even now we are only intimate about once a month. It's hard to find the time/energy/desire with one new baby in the house. I can't imagine how I'd feel with twins. Don't be hard on yourself!!
We’ve had sex like twice, and I truly miss it, but most nights I just feel to exhausted.
Do you mean like sleeping in the same bed? Do y’all sleep separately?