Sorry this isn’t about children but can have everyone’s opinions on their partners watching p*rn… My partner knows I don’t like him watching it but continues to watch it anyway. So last night he wanted s*x obviously with a condom but he

Watching porn is cheating

@Safaa he does it all the time

I wouldn’t say it’s cheating but if he knows you don’t like it then maybe he should take that into consideration and respect what your views are on it x

@Crystal it’s all the time,I’ve told him not to do it so many times. He even uses my iPad too if his phone is dead x

I understand people have different opinions on this but I think it's cheating if he's lusting over other girls and especially if he knows you don't like that. He is disrespecting you if he knows you don't want him to do that and then he goes off to do it. Also especially when he didn't have sex with you he then goes to do it to some girl online. If he can't control that for you then you need to have a serious convo in my opinion anyways because you deserve so much better than someone who enjoys other women and especially j*rking off to other girls too. You should be the only one he lusts over. I think having a serious conversation would help x

It is disrespectful but I’m my opinion it’s not cheating as such x

I don't see it as cheating but it does annoy me that you'd rather seek pleasure from a stranger than me!

@Safaa that depends on the relationship, not all people feel this way. But betraying set boundaries is disloyal

It’s very disloyal,he says he likes me in red so I put my red nighty on for him and then he gets in a huff🤷🏻‍♀️ tbh if he’s going to be like that with me I’d rather not have sex at all🤷🏻‍♀️ x

@Safaa I’ve tried sitting him down before about it and even broke down in tears but he doesn’t care😩 we’ve got two children together. I’ve asked him to get the snip and he said he would. He was meant to have it before our daughter was born… she’s now 3 months old and I’m still waiting for him to book the appointment x

It’s definitely not cheating in my relationship. We both enjoy porn alone and together

@Donna Woods but he knows my views on it and knows I don’t like him doing it. Especially when I put the effort out there to have sex🤷🏻‍♀️

I was supposed to tag another commenter as a reply to the blanket statement that porn is cheating. When it is not. It is very individual based on the boundaries discussed in your relationship. If you’re not happy with it and it’s been discussed before then you’ve got every right to be upset.

I don’t believe that watching porn is cheating but everyone has different boundaries in their relationship and they should be respected. My husband and I enjoy porn together and I wouldn’t be bothered if he was using it to have a w@nk… I know I do and he finds that a turn on too. Maybe you can try watching it together and see if that changes things for you both? Maybe you will find something that you both enjoy xx