I think you should really think hard on this one. I personally would talk to him. See where he stands. See how you really feel about him. Especially because if yall love each other you both should find a way to work this out. It may be hard but in the end you will love those babies with every part of you.
Hey mama, have you ever had an abortion before? If not then think about how you would handle it emotionally and physically. It’s a taxing situation and your body will be weak and in pain for a few days. If you’re struggling now with your one child and dad isn’t as active then I would seriously consider an abortion although it would break my heart to do so. Just know whatever you decide is right for you. And if you need to talk I’m here 🤍