Intimacy

Don’t have sex for the sake of just pleasing your partner .. let him be childish and have a strop

@Sophie he is also in the army and keeps saying this is why lads break up with their girlfriends if no intimacy is there I just feel like I’m walking on egg shells everytime

@Jessica if he thinks a relationship is just purely based off sex that’s not normal at all

@Sophie I said it’s not all about sex I take him on dates I contribute to the household but nothing seems to please him it all came out he cheated on me a few months ago and I still think about that

@Jessica sounds like maybe you two need to have a chat about the relationship ..

@Sophie maybe so I try and explain where I come from but as soon I mention something he doesn’t like he just stops listening I know finding out I’m pregnant again 4 months after having my daughter is a shock but we need to be in this together

i’m really sorry this is happening to you, it’s not fair at all. you’re juggling a lot at the moment, and being pregnant with your 3rd child on top of that, it’s understandable that you don’t want to have sex all the time. what he said about people braking up with their partners because there’s no intimacy was just a manipulation tactic! to try and make you feel bad and then have sex with him to keep your relationship and that’s so wrong. if you don’t want to have sex, DONT HAVE SEX. don’t let hm pressure you or manipulate you into just doing it anyway, you deserve better than that! i’m always here if you need someone to talk to x