@Patricia I’m not sure 🤔
Can definitely relate and as someone who had a falling out with their best friend (who was also pregnant at the same time as me), I can relate to the feeling of disappointment over the way a friendship panned out too. One thing I have learned this year is most people in your circle will be fair weather friends only. This is especially hard if friendship, empathy, helping others out, etc, are all high priorities and values to you, as they are to me. I'm sorry you're going through this right now. It really does take a village and as someone who also doesn't have one and wish they did, it's okay to have your fair share of off days. I know I do x
Is fair weather like the same as seasonal friends? In my life when it’s convenient to them? Or if they need something they’ll contact me..? I really don’t have many friends which is sad, they just seem to all have stuff going on and I can’t just have 1 supportive/reliable friend that can help me out when I need it 😣
I definitely do. I'm so sorry you're going through that! I had wonderful parents but not really any reliable friends to empathize and be there to lean on. It's so tough. Just a thought - could it be that she is feeling so overwhelmed that she feels she has nothing to offer or give anyone else right now? I understand that feeling as well. ☹️ Sometimes we have to really spell it out if the need is great. Hugs ❤️