Can we normalize not having to reach our limit before we see the signs and cut our losses? The older I get, the less time I want to waste.

The night I walked away, I was at instant peace and I realized I should have done it a long time ago. Alot of men will mistreat a good woman over and over, then try to flip the narrative and call her disloyal when she finally decides to leave. But let’s be real... how long did you expect her to keep choosing you while you kept choosing everything and everyone else? You can’t break her heart repeatedly, lie to her face, cheat behind her back, dismiss her feelings, then turn around and act shocked when she stops fighting for you. Love isn’t proven through how much pain she can endure. Eventually, even the most loyal woman will get tired. Tired of the promises. Tired of the apologies. Tired of the cycle. And when she walks away, it’s not because she didn’t love you. It’s because she finally started loving herself more. What hurts the most is... she really stayed longer than she should’ve because she saw something in you. She held on because she believed in the version of you that you kept promising to become. But faith can only carry a relationship so far when actions don’t match the words. So no, she’s not disloyal. She just reached her limit. And by the time you realize she was the one, she’ll already be at peace without you.