Toddler rage

Has anyone gone through their toddler hitting them or not wanting them whilst they’ve been pregnant? I have a 2YO and I’m currently pregnant. Before pregnancy, my LO was obsessed with me and didn’t let anyone do anything for him if it wasn’t me but since finding out about being pregnant and including him in the journey. He’s not wanting me to do anything for him and even has gone as far and to randomly lash out at me and hit me. Has anyone got any advice?
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My 4 old son was so happy when I was pregnant he helped me in the house

@Jilissa probs not such a helpful comment! I never experienced this as my eldest was 4 wheh my little was born but I’m sure it’s just a phase and try to not let it bother you. I know it’s hard-my eldest only wanted her dad at that age! X

My 21 month old wasn't like it during pregnancy but we're going through hitting big time now baby is born. I think its an age thing hence 4yo wouldn't be doing it... We have introduced a time out on the bottom step and each time explain "you're going to sit here because you hit mummy and that's not kind". I can't say it's worked much yet but we will just be persevering! Remember everything is just a phase and try not to take it personally!

I think it's just a little bit of jealousy as he can probably sence there's going to be a change and that mummy is going to have a new baby. I had it with my first born when I had my second. But I just tried to involve him as much as I could when his brother was born and I tried to make it as fun as possible! I also bought him a baby from the store but he was 18 months old when his brother was born. They grew up to be the best of friends :) its hard but it didn't last long with my son.

Tbh I don't think it's to do with the pregnancy, it could just be a coincidence but this is a stage they go through. They are learning new things and want to be more independent and all kids go through a hitting stage. He will grow out of it, don't take it personally he loves you x

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