When should you leave your relationship?

Ladies, I need help. Please hit me with all the reasons why you should leave a relationship. I think I know deep down I need to leave. No abuse has happened but there has been lots of things over the years and I’m starting to open my eyes to it all.
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I literally experienced falling out of love, I suddenly realised that they aren’t who I wanted to share my current achievements with, and then everything they said annoyed me because i realised I don’t love this person anymore, I see them as more of a friend and don’t care to much about what they are talking about. I was going to give it 6 months to see if I was going through a bit of a rough patch, my friend said no, do it now , don’t drag it out. I also I got a puppy that didn’t like the guy, and he wasn’t much interested in getting to know the pup. I met my husband 6 months later and my dog loved him from the very first meeting.

Many reasons. In no particular order and definitely not limited to these (characters will run out!): - when your values are not aligned - when you aren’t growing in yourself and as a couple - when you aren’t being intellectually stimulated - when they are unable to open up and be vulnerable with you - when you’re not the one with whom they can be vulnerable - when the relationship isn’t complimenting your purpose and is cluttering your sanity - not being treated in the way you need to or should be - if you know you picked wrong, because you didn’t heal right.. - when you’re not valued, respected, appreciated and celebrated - when there’s dishonesty, disloyalty, disengagement, disconnection - when your relationship has been disrespected (by them or when they have allowed others to) - when you no longer feel safe (physically, emotionally, mentally etc) - if you have to ‘fight’ for their love - living in ‘happy dysfunction’ - when you can’t give THEM the above too!

I would leave a relationship if he: Put my daughter in danger or tried to hurt her, cheated, constant lied, belittled me, u healhy relationship where you argue all the time, didn't put any effort in with his daughter, if I had to do everything, didn't love him anymore, didn't feel attracted to him anymore, if there was no affection anymore. There must be more but can't think of anymore x

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