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My baby fell down the stairs (Trigger warning)

I’m feeling so much worry and guilt. My baby almost 8 months, was in his walker and our litter box is in the basement. Our cat was scratching at the door to go down so I opened it a crack knowing he was in his walker still and just thinking I’d shut it in a minute. He was in the other room and I went to start a load...

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Bit deep?🙃

This might be a bit deep for a Tuesday evening🙃 However I have a newly turned one year old. He’s great and he sleeps and eats great I can’t fault him. Me on the other hand, since he’s turned one I just feel like mentally I’ve hit a brick wall. I’m constantly exhausted. I’m snappy and every little thing my partner…

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I had to send the most embarrassing email

I had to tell the kids school to stop telling their dad stuff because he doesn’t care and forgets everything. I guess he was told they would be doing a home visit today. I’ve been in and out of the hospital with one kid, had a doctors appointment for another and this woman shows up to my trashed house. I am so embar...

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My BD Wants me to bin all my kids toys

So basically my BD is really into podcast and doom scrolling mad finding thing of the internet that he wholeheartedly agrees with. For example he believes that my kids should be fed vegetables etc. So from this he's basically said they should only be able to have 2 toys and the rest need to go in the bin. To that I ...

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Marriage conflicts

We had our precious baby boy three weeks early. apparently since I got pregnant, my husband started having anxieties about our compatibility. We are now in the thick of taking care of a newborn and I’m feeling really lonely, shocked, and uncertain about the future in the worst way. i thought we were really solid in ...

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Would you allow your ex to put your 16 month old on their shoulders in a cafe?

My ex uses a crutch outside and was carrying bags, she isn’t the most safest person meaning she is accident prone and has many “incidents” to say the least. She asked for our son so I handed him over, then she was holding him all awkward and he started struggling trying to get back to me, so I took him back and she ...

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Y’all…

This shit is rough 😭😭 half the time my 3 yr old is sweet, then the other half is demon meets baby… whining and throwing fits, not listening or straight up saying “no” to everything, being a monster when he doesn’t get his way 😭😭 I’m being bullied 😭😭 he already started going to the other parent when one says no…

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my adoptive parents

They moved me out here with them, call my old place that I had on my own a shoebox (small) convinced me and my bf that their home would be better for our child, (we were just fine) hoping I’d maybe get more help! Once I get here my dad is a slob and says I’m the woman of the house so I have to clean up, he doesn’t m...

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What would you do?

Hey guys, so I have a friend and I don’t know how to help her anymore her 13year old son is literally running the show. She won’t even take him to school anymore. He just stays home all day in bed playing with the vision reality thing. He keeps stealing her money to pay for games and idk. I’ve gave her a lot of idea...

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Escape plan

I’m piecing together my escape plan to leave my partner. I’m currently a SAHM so I need to source of income, I mapped out just how much I need to make per month just to get by & its $1980. At that rate, I need to work full time & make no less than $20/hr. I also have no vehicle at this time so I’ll be staying in my ...

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Anyone else have a toddler?

I have a 3yo & I am filled with so much guilt. I feel like I’m not able to give either of them enough time or attention. I’ve always wanted a big family but this is hard!! Any tips? I babywear so I can play with my toddler during the baby’s naps. But even then my abilities are limited compared to what I used to be a...

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Do you have an air purifier in your home?

I would like to get feedback on whether it’s worth purchasing one. If you love yours, please share the model you have.

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Grandparents looking after baby

How would you guys feel about this: My in laws look after my baby 2 days of the week when I’m in the office, which I’m very grateful for. However, I feel that sometimes they focus on the wrong things with her and it leads to her not really being taken care of properly. An example is that today they took her out f...

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Feeling guilty

I’m feeling really guilty for just wanting to chill in bed most of the day because I’m so exhausted from lack of sleep. When my baby is awake I talk to him and interact as much as possible but I haven’t taken him out by myself as I’m feeling really anxious about that. We go out on weekends with my husband but I just...

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Don’t know what to do

Ok so my husband went through my phone and found some text between me and this guy, I texted the guy because I didn’t have no one else to talk to I vent to him and he told me to leave my husband and go to him instead…. So my husband saw those messages and now wants to leave,,, mind you, I just replied with emojis to...

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My husband snapped at me 😂😂

So, my husband works long 10 hour days, and I’m off work on mat leave, iv always been a independent person, and tbh my husband is a “anything need doing” kinda guy always has been, never do anything off his own back but always does what I ask strait away so it works for us, coz yeah im control freak, but other night...

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Night time anxiety

I gave birth 4 weeks ago and I'm struggling with feelings of dread when it comes to the evenings/nights. My partner is back at work so I've said I'll do the nights so he doesn't have to get up and be tired for work but I feel so alone in those hours. I'm also finding that I'm getting anxious about feeding (BF) as ...

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Excuses

Husband always makes excuses when it comes to being around the baby. Example: he just said he needs to go charge his phone. Still hasn't come back from upstairs yet and it's been 30 mins.

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Work

I want to be at work full time but then I feel guilty because my partner says it will be bad for the little one not to see us much all week. But I love my work and not having the financial stability my job gives me is stressing me out… I feel like I always have to ask my partner for money and I hate it. Anyone els...

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Husband blames me for baby mishaps

Our son is 10 months and he is in his rambunctious stage. He’s full of energy, bopping around, crawling fast, wanting to touch and grab everything. I am an exhausted mom. I am a SAHM and so I am his primary parent. I am up with him for all overnight wakes and feeds. I’m exhausted during the day. A few days ago my hu...

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