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Struggling

Anyone else really struggling at the minute? The days seem to go by so slowly and I feel like I’m not doing enough and it’s just like living the same day over again. I don’t have a lot of help from my partner and i just feel like I’ve completely lost myself.

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Wanting to get an abortion but partners won’t let me

Got pregnant on the iud and I mentally can’t do it again this is baby #4 but he threatens me if I do it (like he’d unalive me and our family) or he doesn’t want me going to hell we just a few examples and I don’t know what to do. He doesn’t even help emotionally with the kids (he pays the bills which is sees and eno...

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Being Christian and doing Yoga

I pretty much have my answer that I don't think they're compatible. Before being a Christian I loved Yoga but as a new Christian I just can't see how being led by "self-enlightenment" teachers can be good. I did Yoga the other day with a friend and couldn't relax or get into it because I just was worried and kept sa...

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Hmu on snap!

Shayla_griffi25 Bored!! Need more friends

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BD drama

My BD left me for someone else when I was 6months pregnant , I now have a nearly 2 year old and he's never really provided for her and only sees her when it suits him . He claims he doesn't work when I know he gets cash in hand!! I have asked for child maintenance etc but he claims he's 'skint'- never mind the h...

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Looking for a job / studying

Five months into my return from maternity leave and I'm ready to quit. Also considering starting study for a career in law. If anyone has done this in the UK please advise on where to start. Also tell me some success stories. Did you manage to find your dream job? ☺️👍♥️💙💙

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Would being away from ur partner for a year 1/2 drive u apart from them

I’m 3 months pregnant with a 1 and 3 year old autistic child (non verbal & therapy 4 days a week) I’ve done postpartum alone every time and more, and my bf is gonna move in with his mom to get his ged and go to school and will see us once every two weeks

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Remote jobs

Hi! Is anyone working remote jobs or know where I could find a remote job that is legit? I am struggling to find anything and looking to make some money!

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Yellow rice

I was supposed to make Spanish rice ( Arroz con gandules ) but I didn’t have pigeon peas . Still turned out great 😊

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Baby talk

I’m back to work and find it such an adjustment being around people who never talk about babies (which I completely understand haha) I feel like I got so used to all my interactions being with other mums on maternity leave and actually feel quite sad leaving this maternity bubble behind. I know this sounds a bit unf...

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Baby groups

Can anyone recommend any baby groups close to mansfield that are more structured, development based rather than just paying £8 to be thrown into a room with a few toys and sensory equipment? Thank you xx

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Havent been intimate since we found out!

Last year I had an abortion which really affected our relationship. We stayed together I ended up getting pregnant again 3 months ago and he’s saying he doesn’t wanna keep it. I do though, and now we haven’t been intimate since we found out only cuddling but no sex. It seems very weird to me idk how to take it. He s...

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Looking for mummy friends

Hi my name is Elisha I’m 35 years old and have two boys aged 17 years old and 17 months old. I live in Plumstead in Se London. Looking to connect with other mums for meet ups, play dates, chats etc….. Feel free to message me! 😊

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Cheating

I’m 33 weeks pregnant and my partner went out on Saturday night and I’ve since found messages from a girl (they have added each other on Snapchat that night) who was out with his friendship group, they had been calling each other on the night at 4am and the messages said ‘where are you’ ‘where you gone’ and then the...

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SOS! Need some assistance!

I’ve been on a desperate search trying to find this stuffy to buy an extra or 2. My 17m girl recently got attached to this one about 2 months ago. I didn’t realize how dirty it would get lol I’ve found a few online, but everywhere that has had them, they’re not longer available or out of stock. I’m wanting to get ex...

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Going back to work scheduling

Hi guys- I go back to work next month and on an agreed set day rota come June. My manager in June has already scheduled two work meetings / training days ((compulsory)) on days I’m not scheduled to work. I’ve already had an absolute mare with childcare and have been able to secure it for the three days a week I’d ...

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Break up

My bd ended things with me because he said the relationship was affecting his mental health to the point that he has been looking other women in a way he shouldn’t as he’d been checking out of the relationship.He said it’s nothing I’ve done or not my fault so I’m struggling to figure out what or where that came from...

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Breakup :/

Guys how can I get over a breakup 😩 it’s not with my baby dad it was my bf I was with for a year. I called it off last week and we haven’t spoken since. I felt pretty good about it at the time but today I feel a bit rubbish about it😣 I don’t have many friends where I live and my family is not nearby too. Any…

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Supplements

What type and brand of supplements are you taking?

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Using private insurance for baby

Hi, has anybody used their workplaces private health insurance for their baby? Have you had a good experience? My son is struggling with a cow's milk allergy and it's quite difficult going through the NHS. It's been months of going back and forth before we were even able to see a paediatrician. I wonder if anyone el...

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