@Rina he never listens to me I say no to sex he guilt trips me until I give in and just lay on the bed and let him
If you say no to sex and he still manipulates you and does it without your consent that’s consider rape . I think in my opinion you have to many red flags . I would grab my kids and go if I was you .
I wouldn’t tolerate that people around my kids . My house is my kids safe space and privacy . If he stills want to hang out with those people we can do it far way from the kids . We should have respect the kids and protecting their safe environment. And the fact that he didn’t validate your words saying you were not comfortable is a big red flag .