Green momma

The first doctor I spoke to when finding out I was pregnant told me I needed to stop immediately because “smoking isn’t viable with pregnancy” meaning the pregnancy wouldn’t work if I kept smoking…. I’m now 16w with a healthy baby girl. I feel like some people wrongly input their own opinions onto you as if they’re facts and should be treated as gospel 🙄

Motherhood comes with a lot of judgment. No matter what parenting decisions you make, there’s always someone who would aBsOlUtElY NEVER dO tHaT and it makes them feel more secure in their choices to make other people feel like shit about theirs. Only you know what’s best for you and what’s best for your family, so make your decisions based on that. I know for me, I’d rather smoke than take anxiety medication. I’m able to be more present as a mother and I don’t get as overwhelmed. So for me and in my house, that’s what works best. It’s not for everyone, but no one else is living my life 🤷🏼‍♀️ Don’t take it personally, and honestly I don’t talk about it with most people because I don’t care to hear anyone else’s opinion lol. Making different choices doesn’t make you a better person. Going out of your way to to make other people feel bad about theirs so you can feel better about yours definitely doesn’t make you a good person either 😂

I’m 23 weeks with a perfectly healthy baby girl and have been smoking the majority of my pregnancy. Joints and carts. I just feel like frfr people need to mind their own business and babies.

Wow I smoked whole pregnancy and didn’t have my medical card at that time they didn’t give me any problems… they do like to fear monger… if you do plan to keep smoking I’d say keep to clean vessels I used bings and organic raw paper

My midwife this time around is completely with me using cannabis it helps a lot especially since this is my second my toddler been running me up the wall!

I always quit half way through I just don’t want dhs in my apartment I don’t have to let them in I have my card I just rather not and it’s a good break too because when I had my daughter in April of last year my boyfriend went and got a us a ruby first day out of the hospital and I was ✨ GONE ✨

I had someone, a man, who I didn’t even know (A friend of a friend) saw me take a hit in my friends room and stormed in and straight up tell me I’m killing my baby (right after I was violently throwing up). Ngl I felt so judged and like such a bad mom, and left immediately. But my OB knows and has said my baby is doing absolutely perfect. Some ppl rlly don’t know boundaries or when to mind their own business. If ur baby is doing fine and 🍃 is being beneficial to you, then 🖕🏻 everyone’s opinions 😅 (except ur OB obviously lmao)

honestly I smoked my whole pregnancy and had people tell me I was gonna kill my baby and I tried slowing down but now I have a healthy happy 2 month old boy

My doctor told me it would be better to smoke weed than take the antidepressants, anxiety meds, and adderall that I take daily.

@Jade midwives are a lot more open to it. My ob was against it, my babys specialist were fine with it, and a few of my friends midwives suggested it for morning sickness , pain, and sleep while pregnancy.

So I am 35 weeks and I went to a club on the weekend 4/20 and everyone.. I MEAN EVERYONE was staring at my belly. They started whispering and pointing like I don't know I'm pregnant lol but it did make me feel uncomfortable considering our table was in the back (lights were on) and l just had to realize their opinions didn't matter cuz I am a baddie and they will never see my child. So they can whisper all they want but mama gonna have fun.