@Darci wow that’s crazy and yea I feel like having a baby really shows who is supportive in your life and that’s ok if that support isn’t from who you expect thanks for your comment
First, a jealous friend isn’t a good friend, so let them go. A real friend is happy for you. Secondly, it’s very hard to stay friends once you have a baby and the other person doesn’t. I feel like my best friend no longer really wants to hear about my daily motherhood struggles. It’s hard to relate. I’m trying to keep the friendship alive, but ultimately it takes 2 people to want to keep the friendship and to make the effort.
Went through this very thing! I got so tired of the obvious comparison and resentful remarks. I thought getting married made her angry but the moment I got pregnant, everything changed. I even talked to her like, I love you and let's not let a pregnancy change our friendship. Because everyone was telling me that it would. Well, she was so bitter and I found out later she would tell everyone bad things about me behind my back. All of a sudden, I get pregnant, and I'm the worst friend of 25 years. Well, when I gave birth she ended up saying how she was hurt because I didn't call her and it wasn't special between me and her. I was like, what? I literally just gave birth. Long story short, she told me how she felt. I told her how I felt. And we left out seperate ways. I let her know the door was always open to talk if she wanted. That was 4 years ago. Sometimes friendships really are just over.