Hey! I wish you all the happy and positive vibes. Did you see your doctor yet ? This is my first baby too and I'm due in July end. Wondering if doctor recommended you to wait for natural pains ?
Best way I can describe the contractions is an intense pressure downward and your entire uterus gets tight. Unfortunately I can't give you more information after initial labor because I didn't dilate past 6cm and had to have an emergency C-section but I know from what I did experience they are looking for 60 seconds or longer to cause dilation and they get stronger and longer as labor continues.
@Lucy Congratulations! You're so close to meeting your baby in person! I'm only nearly 6 weeks and dying for my first scan to make sure everything is okay Please let me know of any tips you might have when you're able to from birth as I'm so terrified for it