Be brave and reject the bare minimum…💕✨

If you’re not full of bravery, what are you full of??….

More than likely society’s standards, man-made rules, and generational stories of struggle and limitation.

I shared this powerful ACTIVATION PROMPT with my gorgeous client last week…We were working on her starting her own Etsy shop and creating passive income, but she kept getting stuck in doing it all “the right way”…

I asked her this game-changing question, If you truly believed all the rules were made up and you couldn’t mess this up, how would you show up right now? What brave action would you take when it comes to setting up your business?

This is a powerful perspective shifter….If you believed all the rules were made up and you couldn’t get this wrong…What would you finally let go of? Who would you finally decide to be?

She answered and I guided her through creating her confidence mastery plan so that she can show up feeling totally assured of her success!

Gorgeous Soul, I’m going to let you in on the secret I shared with her at the end of our session….All the rules are made up. All of them.

Universal Laws are real and remain the same (ex: Law of Gravity), but the rules of society…those are completely malleable and made up.

How would you show up in your life if you allowed yourself to unapologetically embrace your full greatness?

You can bravely live your dream life now…It all starts with building the confidence to break all of the rules and create your own.

Beautiful Being, does this sound like what you need to start doing?

Type “BRAVE” if you’re feeling this!!!

💕🔥XOXO, Darcel

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Love my husband. Love my kids. But…

I’m 32 weeks pregnant with twins. I take care of my 4 yo, 2 yo, and 1 yo. I barely have energy to stand anymore. I cuddle and watch movies with my kids all day at this point. My husband is less pushy in this pregnancy in wanting to be touched or love up on me. But I feel more like a tool these days more than ever. He gets frustrated (not to a crazy degree) but I can tell he huffs because he’s probably sexually frustrated from me not wanting to be touched on. (my boobs are super sensitive atm) I love having the babies part, but the pregnancy also now has me feeling like a baby making machine. And a tool with big boobs made for touches and my husbands pleasure. Ofc I love my husband and kids, but with my hormones all wack, it really doesn’t feel the same when you’re not turned on. It’s so hard for me to get turned on. I’m uncomfortable all the time in my own body. Babies moving in there all the time. My children cuddle me all day but get rowdy at the end of the day, so I end up getting touched out and I can get irritable when my husband tries to touch me affectionately. He doesn’t have the tact necessary for me right now, when I wish he wanted to go in for a normal comforting hug I’m let down more often than not, there is almost always a boob groping involved as well. I tried to just let him touch me last night so he could get it out of his system, but he could tell I felt tense. Wish my boobs weren’t such an uncomfortable place for me to be touched. Idk why I’m making this post. Probably just to vent. Wish men were equally as emotionally intelligent as women. Wish I didn’t feel like I still owe him something because he’s picking up a lot of the house load and yet I still need to ask him to do more before these twins arrive. He’s tired every day when he comes home, so he takes a shower sometimes works out, and helps get the kids to bed. So it’s a struggle getting him to help any further than that. Weekends are my only time to get to him. But it’s a struggle to find time on weekends too. I know if he wanted to he would. But there’s just no drive.

Go to dinner ideas

Looking for recipes you use in your family that are not the traditional lasagna, shepards pie, ect

If you DO NOT buy things second hand, it is mainly because:

Answer only if it applies to you.

What are we giving our soon-to-be 3yo for their birthdays?

We have the magnetiles, we have the kinetic sand and play doh, we have the play kitchen…

Literally, is there anything left in the world to buy this spoilt kid? 😅

Bestie where are you?!

Hey I really need to make some friends being a mom is so lonely. Distance does not matter to me (I can’t see waves)

Baby groups?

Hello there!!
I hope you enjoying the 5month babies 🫠 the cuteness outweighs everything over here.
We live in the area of Croydon & need to start going to baby groups ( I NEED it more than him though) but I am a little bit clueless. Any recommendations?
We are happy to travel a bit too.
Thanks ☺️