Haha I get this too! From people I’ve never met! ‘Ah congratulations, was it planned?’ Erm yeah… I’m 32 in a long term stable relationship 😂😂
@Sarah omg 😅🙈
I know thankfully she's moved now, cause that did creeped out 😂
Im 21 which I get is young but i told a friend the other day and they straight away asked „shit what are you gonna do?” Same when I told my manager he was like „ you’re keeping it?!” I know it’s a shock because I don’t really seem like the baby type but I wish people could gather that if I’m telling them and I’m smiling I’m probably happy and excited for it 😅
Oh crikey I had so many weird comments. Our older two are 10 and 12 and so it seemed normal that people would ask “oh wow- did you plan it?” in disbelief! No we didn’t but hey…. 🤣 Also I have had 2 people ask me if I’m sure it’s one baby! 🙄🤣🤦🏻♀️
I’ve had someone tell me that I ‘didn’t seem excited enough’ 🤷🏼♀️ Didn’t really know how to react! This was at work where I haven’t told many people yet, so wouldn’t exactly be jumping up and down about it
Yes I had the question of was this pregnancy wanted! Also I’m due on 23rd December and had lots of comments about “poor planning” because it’s near Christmas.
@Madeleine poor planning! 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I mean…. Some people! 🤦🏻♀️
@Anna G I know! It’s taken quite a long time to get to this point so honestly I couldn’t care less about the time of year 😂🤦🏻♀️ people don’t think before they react…
@Madeleine and that’s what’s so insensitive about it! No one knows the history!!! Like when people said to me… “oh my god I bet that wasn’t planned!” Well…. No not wasn’t! We have 2 older kids and little did they know I spent the first 2 weeks crying and worrying about it! So obviously I needed reminding! 😡
@Madeleine Oh yes, I’m due Christmas Eve and have had some variation of that a couple of times 🙄 So rude!
@Anna G bless you! I don’t understand why people say things like that because it’s no one’s business unless you choose to share. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy ❤️
‘Was it planned?’ Is such a bizarre thing to say, I’ve had a few people ask me that and I’m like 🤨 regardless, does it matter to you? I think they assume because our daughter is 18 months old that it can’t have been because who would be so stupid 😂 Also, had the ‘bad planning’ comment re Xmas, as our 1st is a January baby so people always have something to say about it being an expensive time of year 🙄 Actually folks, it was perfect planning, we aimed for December, get over it 😂
My director said, “usually people announce that they bought a home or got a baby puppy but we finally have a baby human on the way!!!”
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I’m 15 weeks pregnant with twins and have been referred to as “huge” quite a few times 🫠
I keep asking if the pregnancy was planned 😐 I'm 35 and with my partner for over 8 years lol! Tho my strangest one was my neighbour, I told her our news and when I was due and a few days later when I seen her she went I was just thinking the other night you must of conceived around my birthday 😲 like sorry what why you thinking of your neighbours like that 😂😂😂