Anyone pregnant or trying for a second ?

I'm not pregnant, but got pregnant when my first was 8 months. I wanted a close age gap. They're 17 months apart and even though it's been really hard at times I'm glad I did it that way because I'm definitely done now, I wanted to get it over with (the baby days) 😅

@Estelle fair enough! I’m in that in between stage and toying with the idea.

I’m wanting to wait so I can try a vbac

I just had to jump in without thinking about it 😁, I found it extremely difficult the first time round and knew I wanted my daughter to have at least one sibling, but wasn't actually keen on the postpartum stage as I found the first year quite hard. @Danielle I was encouraged to try for a vbac, but I don't actually think my body was ready for it with the pregnancies being so close together. It wasn't what I wanted anyway

@Estelle I’m waiting like 3-5 years anyways.

@Estelle ahhh! It’s that, plus the whole age thing being against me and wanting them close together.

Yes it was partly the age thing for me too, I had my first at 38 and second at 39

@Estelle glad it worked out for you

I’m due in March with my 2nd there will be an 16month age gap between the two.

@Tori how are you feeling?

I’ve been pretty good, I do find by the early afternoon I’m getting tired but I’m just napping when my little one naps

@Tori I hope things go smoothly for you