She had her family saying that My Husband was taking advantage of me for my money because of my hearing loss. Idk how you're supposed to take advantage of someone with a partial hearing loss?😂 But anyway this entire fight over trying to keep me from getting legally married which I finally did in April 2024 , is now finally done.
And that's why birth mother and her family are banned from Me and my children and Husband while I continue to blast her online for being a bad mother and a child abuser who would literally steal from her own kids and then lie to everyone to make herself look innocent.
When I received the letter in the mail saying that SS is lowering my benefits because of my recent legal marriage , I just accepted it with no emotions other than "oh well , that's just the rules" I do think it's unfair for me to have to pay back some of the money , but I don't care about the benefits loss. I have been blessed with a Husband and our beautiful little new baby. I have also lost everyone else just because of this situation with my birth mother.
Jeez I’m glad you got away from that situation with her. Really is a shame.
So my narcissistic birth mother and her husband and 3 of her other kids have all been responsible for Fighting and bullying me and My Husband over the course of our 3 year engagement because her and her Husband didn't want to lose my SS benefits. I have a hearing loss and that's why I had the benefits. She literally did actually tell me that I couldn't get married or pregnant with any children because she was that thirsty to control me and have full access to my benefits.