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@Shay yes we talked about it in the beginning of my pregnancy but nothing has changed, I don’t even know why he proposed to me, and yes I have to pressure him to help me clean,,he does nothing am telling you. This past days I have been vomiting and not feeling well, like today I’ve only eaten bread he came home he did not ask me how am doing or anything, I’ve been sitting in the bedroom since he got home, he’s watching tv and eating, am just tired and I don’t want to talk to him
Ask him if he wants to break up out the blue and see his reaction and if he asks why you said that tell him you don’t think it’ll work if he continues this behaviour maybe he’ll finally see the seriousness of it but it could go in a direction you don’t want but at least you’ll know
I would do what @Andrea said ask him if he wants to break up because this behavior is really insinuating that and see what he says and then I think it’ll give you the answers your looking for ❤️
@Andrea ok I will do that and see what he does
@Kenzie ok I will
Have you spoken to him about all this? Have you told him how you feel or asked him in simple words to make you something to eat, cook, clean etc.? Because as much as it sounds simple for us, they sometimes need to be reminded they need to think about more than just themselves otherwise when baby comes they will not help one bit! If you have tried speaking and he still refuses to do anything then leave him! I had the same with my gf, she wouldn’t cook unless I pressured her into it and I didn’t have anyone else to cook for me so I’d have to rely on take out and I ended up with food poisoning all because of this! In the end I spoke to her, tried to resolve some issue, gave her a while to change her behaviour and attitude and when it didn’t change, we split up! My son was only 5 months old when I told her we are over, I spend 5 mo this trying to get her to do more and nothing happened! Life is much better now I am alone and caring for just my son and I!